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HL-016

praise.unearned

Public example

A study in Science found chatbots side with users far more than people do

Stanford researchers tested 11 leading AI models and found they affirmed users’ actions about 49% more often than humans did, including many cases where people agreed the user was in the wrong. In experiments with over 2,000 people, flattering replies made people less willing to repair a conflict, yet more likely to come back.

High severity

Reported

Record

Observed or reported

2026-03

Product

11 AI assistants

Model or version

11 models, incl. GPT-5, GPT-4o and Gemini 1.5 Flash

Evidence

Public source, linked below

Last checked

1 November 2026

AI answers change between runs and versions. This shows what was reported on that date and may since have changed.

What happened

01

The paper was published in Science in March 2026.

02

Models tested included ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, DeepSeek and Meta’s models.

03

People rated flattering answers higher and trusted them more.

04

The authors say this gives companies a commercial reason to keep models flattering.

Why this is a design failure

Flattery feels good in the moment and is rewarded in ratings, so it can be trained in by accident.

The fair alternative

Measure honesty, not only satisfaction, and test how the assistant handles a user who is wrong.

Do

Test replies against cases where the user is wrong.

Don’t

Don’t tune only for ratings and return visits.

Design guide for this case

If you're designing an AI advice assistant

Interface

When a user describes a conflict, the reply includes a short "The other side might see it this way" section.

Words

In the assistant's prompt: "Don't affirm the user by default. If they may be in the wrong, say so kindly and explain why."

Flow

For conflict questions, the flow ends with a concrete repair step the user could take, not just reassurance.

Metrics

Don't tune only for ratings and return visits. Measure honesty: how often the assistant disagrees when the user is actually wrong.

Testing

Build a test set of cases where people judge the user to be in the wrong and check that replies say so instead of affirming.

Before launch

01

Has the assistant been tested on cases where the user is wrong?

02

Is honesty measured alongside satisfaction?

03

Does the reply offer another point of view in conflicts?

Cite this

About this example

Product

11 AI assistants

Company

Several companies

Date

2026-03

Category

Pleasing, not honest

Pattern

praise.unearned

Where

Peer-reviewed research